Okay, I am officially starting a blog. Exciting right? Well,
maybe. Who knows, this might be my first and last post. Only time will tell.
The truth is, I am a total BlogStalker. I have stalked numerous blogs for
years, making a comment here and there, but mostly just a stalker. I decided it
was about time I stop all the creepy stalking and join in on the wonderful
world of blogging.
Why, you probably aren’t asking? And to that I answer,
really who wants to be a creepy stalker? It isn’t something to brag about. So
that’s my million dollar answer. Plus, now I can vent, cheer, cry, celebrate,
brag, and whine to possibly absolutely no one, creepy stalkers, or if I am
lucky, some of the wonderful bloggers I’ve met through writing.
With that said, I’m writing my first post on critiquing. Not
necessarily CPs, but just getting and/or giving crits in general. I’m doing
this because I’ve read a lot of praising and griping recently about it. I am
going to admit, right here and now, that I do not have any CPs. I know, most of
you will say this is insane and stupid, but the truth is I can’t find the time
to be a really good CP back. For me, if I can’t give back 100% then I don’t
think I deserve a good CP. I want this to change. I really do. And I hope it
will when all of my kids FINALLY start school this August. (Holy crap, six
hours…. alone…. uninterrupted…no fighting? I have no clue how this will go!)
But for now I enter workshops, crit contests, and I have found lots of great
crits available in auctions for a good cause. Hey, getting a crit AND
helping a good cause is a win-win.
So there are options out there for those of us that aren’t
ready for the wonderful world of CPs. And there are options that don’t include
spending a fortune on editing services. Mind you, not all editing services are
the same. Through my blog stalking, I have found (although not necessarily
tried yet) some great people that will critique and/or edit your work for an extremely
reasonable price.
Anyway, my point is about critiquing. I figured out pretty
quickly that if you want an honest critique you should ask for it. In the
beginning, I got a few that pointed out grammar mistakes etc, but only praised
my story or told me what they liked about it. And I get it. Who wants to tell
an author something didn’t work in their story, that you didn’t get it, or that
is just sucked? But sometimes I personally need to hear that.
My first book sucked. It sucked after the first draft. It
sucked after the revisions. And it still sucked when I completely rewrote it.
If I posted some of the crits I got though you would never know it. They said
they were intrigued, or loved the idea, etc. When the truth was they probably
barely choked their way through it.
Now I don’t fault anyone for offering kind words. The critiquers didn’t know me and probably don’t
like to offend strangers, so I get it. So one day I tried something crazy. I
won a critique and when the critiquer emailed me, I told this person to be
honest. Be brutal even. The good thing is that they will never hear my tirade,
or my excuse for everything they didn’t like. I can sit in my office, type up
my angry response, and then delete it once I feel better.
No one likes to hear anything negative about their work. But
how can you get better if you aren’t willing to take the good with the bad? Yes
there is a right and wrong way to address “problems” in a book. Obviously
saying someone’s work is horrible or made you want to rip your eyeballs out and
grind them in the disposal isn’t the right way. But we should all be grateful
for honest opinions.
So the next time you enter your query or sample into a
contest and don’t get in, or into a workshop and you don’t like the feedback,
or get a critique in general you disagree with, rather than write an angry
response (seriously in a public forum this just makes you look unprofessional
and ridiculous), put it aside for a few days. Then when you have a clear head
read it again. Maybe then you will understand why the critiquer didn’t like
your MC, or thought the pacing was slow, or said you used a certain word way
too many times, you will see it, correct it, and make your work better for it.
So if anyone is reading this, tell me your thoughts? Do you have CPs? If not how do you get critiques? Do you like brutal honesty? Thoughts about contests? How do you handle a tough crit?
So if anyone is reading this, tell me your thoughts? Do you have CPs? If not how do you get critiques? Do you like brutal honesty? Thoughts about contests? How do you handle a tough crit?
Oh! I remember when I first started my blog, one of my first reviews was for a rather generous 3.75 out of 5 star rating (nowadays, I might have given it 3 stars if that) - my critique: "I did, however, feel a need to take points off for the abrupt transitions and sometimes surface sketches of the characters and action."
ReplyDeleteYou'd have thought I totally panned the work. The author and her friends were PO'd and made comments on the blog and on my Goodreads review, instead of taking the critique, looking at it and saying, "Hmmm ... maybe she has a point". My feelings were rather conflicted, but I also decided that I would be MORE flat-out in my critiques if I was going to get that kind of backlash. :)
I'm not sure "fighting back" is the right response from an author. Not everyone is going to like a book. I would think it makes you look not-so-professional, but that's just my opinion. Such a slippery slope. Your crit was constructive and helpful, which is something I think is wonderful. I read one book (pre-blog) that, as much as I loved the story, it actually drove me insane because of the writing. And it is really popular. Go figure.
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure how I will handle it if I get a book I'm just not fond of. Time will tell. Luckily I've enjoyed everything so far. Thank you so much for your thoughtful comments :)